Wednesday, January 25, 2012

Challenge #24

Was anyone bold enough to take yesterday's challenge?
I will give you all some insight into my experiences with it in the past. Each time I did this, I took mental notes and when we were done discussing it, I went and made a physical list. I still have them years later, in fact, I keep them in my wallet. Every now and then, I go back and look over them to remind myself not to be neglectful of those things.

Here are some examples of the things on my lists:
1. Listen
2. Try to be understanding
3. Be supportive
4. See the good in me
5. Find a better way to say things
6. Enjoy being around me
7. Enjoy who I really am
8. Be positive & say positive things
9. Have less distractions
10. Pay more attention to me

As I have completed this challenge, my lists have become shorter and shorter because I have strived to fulfill my spouse's desires in the areas specified during our discussions. That is my hope for you all!

Today's challenge will be a little easier, for those of you who are either working on yesterday's challenge or still reeling from it! Today, make either a physical or mental list of things you like, enjoy, or appreciate about your spouse and share it with them today. Only qualities, no sideways insults!

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