Stability is important in a marriage. So is reliability. Can your spouse rely on you? Do you do what you say you will do? Are you a man or woman of your word? This is all a part of stability and most importantly trust. Your spouse needs to be able to trust you. They need to be able to believe what you say and have faith in you. There are few people worse than the unreliable. If you have been this type of spouse, the type that can't be counted on, trusted, or relied upon, this must be addressed today. Not tomorrow, today. Don't allow another day to go by without regaining the trust of your spouse. If you have lacked dependability in the past, correct this today. If you are unsure, ask your spouse. Have I been someone that you can depend on? Do you consider me to be reliable? Where, if anywhere, have I gained, maintained, or lost your trust? Have I established myself as a safe environment to gain your confidence? These are all good questions, but you can come up with ones that may be better suited to your marriage.
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